clint J kitchen A Deadbeat: November 2009

Monday, November 30, 2009

Fundamental Techniques in Handling People

Fundamental Techniques in Handling People

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1. Don't criticize, condemn or complain.2. Give honest and sincere appreciation.3. Arouse in the other person an eager want.

Six ways to make people like you

1. Become genuinely interested in other people.2. Smile.3. Remember that a person's name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language.4. Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.5. Talk in terms of the other person's interests.6. Make the other person feel important - and do it sincerely.

Win people to your way of thinking

1. The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it.2. Show respect for the other person's opinions. Never say, "You're wrong."3. If you are wrong, admit it quickly and emphatically.4. Begin in a friendly way.5. Get the other person saying "yes, yes" immediately.6. Let the other person do a great deal of the talking.7. Let the other person feel that the idea is his or hers.8. Try honestly to see things from the other person's point of view.9. Be sympathetic with the other person's ideas and desires.10. Appeal to the nobler motives.11. Dramatize your ideas.12. Throw down a challenge.

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Be a Leader: How to Change People Without Giving Offense or Arousing ResentmentA leader's job often includes changing your people's attitudes and behavior. Some suggestions to accomplish this:

1. Begin with praise and honest appreciation.2. Call attention to people's mistakes indirectly.3. Talk about your own mistakes before criticizing the other person.4. Ask questions instead of giving direct orders.5. Let the other person save face.6. Praise the slightest improvement and praise every improvement. Be "hearty in your approbation and lavish in your praise."7. Give the other person a fine reputation to live up to.8. Use encouragement. Make the fault seem easy to correct.9. Make the other person happy about doing the thing you suggest.

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Sunday, November 29, 2009

Largest Mass Weddings in a Decade

Largest Mass Weddings in a Decade

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The bride definitely wore white as 20,000 couples took part in the largest mass wedding in a decade in dozens of cities around the world.

The 'blessing ceremony', held by the Unification Church, was its largest for 10 years and Could be the last at such a large scale officiated by 89-year-old Reverend Sun Myung Moon, the controversial founder of the church.

More than 20,000 people crammed into the Sun Moon University campus in Asan, south of Seoul, For the main event this morning, with another 20,000 joining simultaneous ceremonies in the U.S. Brazil and Venezuela.

Some of the 20,000 brides and grooms taking part in the Unification Church mass wedding ceremony at Sun Moon University, In Asan, South Korea, today Some were new couples who met for the first time in recent months in unions arranged by the church, While others were married couples renewing their vows. The brides wore white veils and wedding dresses, or their national dress. The grooms wore black suits with red ties, with white scarves wrapped around their necks.

The mass wedding ceremony is meant to mark Sun Moon's 90th birthday and the 50th anniversary of his marriage to Han Hak-ja, Church officials said. It comes as he moves to hand day-to-day leadership of the Unification Church over to his children.

Row after row of brides and groom - hailing from South Korea, the U.S., Japan, Europe and elsewhere - posed for photos, Sang and practiced shouting 'Hurrah!' at a pre-ceremony wedding rehearsal.

Without a hitch: Brides wore traditional white wedding dresses or national dress and grooms wore black suits and red ties. Right, The newlyweds pray together during the ceremony.

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During the ceremony, Moon sprinkled holy water towards the crowd before the couples exchanged rings. After blessing the newlyweds, he led them in a loud a cheer amid a shower of white confetti.

He said: 'I pray that you become good husbands and wives, and men and women who can represent the world's six billion humankind.'

Critics who accuse the Unification Church of engaging in cult-like practices say the mass weddings prove it brainwashes its followers.

In the past, Moon routinely paired off couples, many of whom met for the first time at their wedding.

Now, even arranged marriage couples have the chance to meet at least a few months before the ceremony, church officials said.

Controversial: Reverend Sun Myung Moon, with his wife Han Hak-ja, blesses the couples during the ceremony

But none of them were being whisked off on their honeymoons. Couples are required to observe a 40-day waiting period before they Cohabitate to prepare for marriage spiritually. Moon, a self-proclaimed Messiah who says he was 15 when Jesus Christ Called upon him to carry out his unfinished work, has courted controversy and criticism since founding the Unification Church in Seoul in 1954.

He held his first mass wedding in the early 1960s, arranging the marriages of 24 couples himself and renewing the vows of 12 married couples.

Over the next two decades, the weddings grew in scale. The first held outside South Korea, At New York's Madison Square Gardens in 1982, drew tens of thousands of participants and protesters.

In many cases, Moon paired off many couples from different countries as part of his aim of creating a multicultural religious world.

In his recent autobiography, he said: 'My wish is to completely tear down barriers and to create a world in which everyone becomes one.'

Special day: One of the brides smiles as she listens to Rev Moon during the ceremony

Traditional: Some of the 20,000 people in South Korea wore their national dress to the ceremony

Lee Dong-seok, a 32-year-old computer programmer from South Korea, tied the knot with Japanese office worker Fumi Oshima.

He said: 'I think my wife is the most beautiful bride here.'

In New York, 22-year-old Krystof Heller said his parents married in a 1982 mass wedding and he has known his new wife, 23-year-old Maria Lee of South Korea, for around four months.

He said: 'It's something you grow up with. It's something you anticipate your whole life.

'It's not just about a mass wedding, there is the moral emphasis. The big crowd is just the perk.'

Arranged: One of the brides nods off during the marriage ceremony. Many of the unions were arranged by the Unification Church, With couples meeting only months before they are wed.

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Simultaneous: Couples at a church in Washington join in the ceremony through an Internet link

Churchgoers watched the ceremony on a large screen flanked by the flags of South Korea, Japan and the United States in Washington.

'This is the best way to make peace,' said Fumi Oliver, a native of Japan who married an American, the Rev. Zagery Oliver, 12 years ago.

'International, intercultural, interracial marriage is the best way to make peace.'

Hundreds of brides and grooms gathered in churches in Australia, said Enrique Ledesma, Australian director of the church-affiliated Family Federation for World Peace and Unification.

The ceremony in Honduras marks a new start for the movement in the Latin American nation, said Omar Valle, president of the Unification Church in Tegucigalpa. He said 25 couples will renew their vows.

And in Brazil some 2,000 people in 40 cities took part in the ceremony via simultaneous broadcast.

Saturday, November 28, 2009

Picture of the Month

Picture of the Month

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Never Ever Drink and Drive

Never Ever Drink and Drive

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Show this to your friends, family, children, grand children or great children

This young lady was recently on Oprah and what a loving, forgiving young woman she is ! An amazing story of what she has suffered and will bear the rest of her life. Please share this with your friends and especially your teenagers who are driving.

This is Jacqueline Saburido on September 19, 1999 ..

This is she and her Father, 1998.

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Her Birthday party as a child.

The car in which Jacqueline traveled. She was hit by another car that was driven by a 17-year old male student on his way home after drinking a couple of hard packs with his friends.This was in December 1999.

Jacqueline was caught in the burning car and her body was heavily burnt during around 45 seconds. After the accident Jacqueline has n e eded over 40 operations.

With her Father, 2000.

Getting treatment.

Three months after accident.

Without a left eyelid Jacquie needs eye drops to keep her vision.

Now 20 years old, he cannot forgive himself for driving drunk on that night three years ago. He's aware of devastating Jacqueline Saburidos life.

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Not everyone who gets hit with a car dies. This picture was taken 4 years after the accident and the doctors are still working on Jacqueline, whose body was covered with 60% severe burns.

Let's make as many people as we can aware of the consequences of drinking & driving.

Friday, November 27, 2009

How is It Possible - 12 or 13?

How is It Possible - 12 or 13?

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12 or 13?

This is the cleverest email I've ever seen.

Please wait until the group changes positions.

Is it twelve or thirteen??

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